The Bethel, Connecticut community is mourning the loss of Joseph Arthur Apuzzo, affectionately known as “Joe the Actual Bear,” who passed away on March 24, 2025, at the age of 37. Joe was a cherished figure at Bethel CT Pride events, particularly known for his enthusiastic participation in open mic nights.
Born on July 18, 1987, Joe’s vibrant personality and unwavering support for the LGBTQ+ community made him a beloved presence. Bethel CT Pride expressed their sorrow on social media, stating, “It is with the deepest sorrow that we share the passing of one of our brightest lights. Joe Apuzzo, known to many as Joe the Actual Bear, was a gift to this community.”
Joe’s passion for music and performance shone through during open mic nights, where he captivated audiences with his talent and warmth. His contributions extended beyond the stage, as he was known for his kindness, generosity, and commitment to fostering an inclusive environment.
Friends and community members have shared heartfelt tributes, remembering Joe as a source of joy and inspiration. His absence leaves a significant void in the hearts of those who knew him.
Details regarding memorial services will be announced by his family. The community continues to honor Joe’s legacy by celebrating the love and unity he championed throughout his life.