It is with heavy hearts that we announce the untimely passing of Brien Brenner, a devoted husband and soon-to-be father, who died early Saturday morning on April 5, 2025, due to unknown natural causes. He was only 28 years old. Brien’s unexpected departure has left a profound sense of loss among his family, friends, and the community of Manhattan, Kansas, where he had spent his entire life.
Brien Brenner Obituary Manhattan: Beloved KS husband & soon-to-be dad, Brien Brenner dies suddenly
At the time of his passing, Brien and his beloved wife, Chesalai, were eagerly awaiting the arrival of their first child—a baby girl who was expected to make her debut in early August. Brien was overjoyed at the prospect of becoming a father and was filled with excitement about the idea of being a “girl dad.” He and Chesalai had recently begun preparing her nursery, a project they were both looking forward to completing together. Each brush stroke and decoration was infused with love and anticipation, representing the dreams they had for their growing family.
As a passionate Kansas City Chiefs fan, Brien couldn’t wait to share that love with his daughter. Just last Christmas, he received a festive Chiefs sweater specially designed for his little girl. The thought of snuggling up together in matching gear to watch football in the fall brought him immense joy. Brien always envisioned bonding with his daughter over football games, teaching her about the sport he adored, and creating cherished memories as they cheered for their favorite team.
In pursuit of his professional dreams, Brien was in the final semester of his studies at Kansas State University, where he was student teaching at Clay Center. He had aspirations of becoming a principal, a role that would allow him to inspire and empower future generations of students. Set to graduate in May, Brien was looking forward to starting this new chapter in his life and had recently accepted a promotion at Success Vision, a position that would provide for his growing family and help him fulfill his aspirations.
Faith was a central aspect of Brien’s life. A devoted man of God, he held a deep love for Jesus and had been a member of Manhattan First Assembly since childhood. His faith guided him in all his endeavors, shaping him into the loving and generous person he was known to be. Friends and family often described Brien as the life of the party, possessing a natural gift for making others laugh and brightening any room he entered. His intelligence, sense of humor, and unwavering love for Chesalai made him an extraordinary partner, friend, and son.
Brien leaves behind not only his wife and unborn daughter but also a loving family. He is survived by his parents, one sister, two brothers, and a host of sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law who cherished him deeply. Additionally, he is survived by his three beloved pets—two cats and one dog—who were an integral part of his home life and shared in the warmth and joy of living with Brien.
The loss of Brien creates a deep void in the lives of all who knew and loved him. His kindness, laughter, and genuine spirit will be profoundly missed. As the community comes together to mourn, they will also celebrate Brien’s life and the love he brought to those around him. In his honor, family and friends encourage everyone to cherish their loved ones, honor their commitments, and find joy in the moments that make life beautiful.
Brien Brenner may have left this world far too soon, but the love he shared and the memories he created will live on in the hearts of everyone fortunate enough to know him. His legacy as a devoted husband, loving future father, and faithful friend will continue to inspire and uplift those who carry his spirit forward. Rest in peace, Brien. Your light shone brightly, and you will forever be remembered and missed.