SHOREHAM, NY – The Shoreham-Wading River (SWR) Central School District and the broader Long Island community are grieving the sudden and heartbreaking loss of Adrian Gilmore, a deeply respected teacher, mentor, and lacrosse coach whose passion for education and athletics left a lasting impact on generations of students. Gilmore, whose name became synonymous with leadership, compassion, and commitment at SWR, passed away unexpectedly, leaving behind a legacy marked by integrity, excellence, and heart.
Adrian Gilmore was more than an educator—he was a role model and a pillar of the SWR family. For over a decade, he served in multiple roles across the district, but it was on the field and in the classroom where his presence was most deeply felt. As a teacher, he brought learning to life, connecting with students in meaningful ways and encouraging them to think critically, work hard, and believe in themselves. His teaching style was a perfect balance of discipline and empathy, intellect and humor.
Outside the classroom, Gilmore was an iconic figure on the lacrosse field. As a coach, he was not only known for his winning strategies and deep understanding of the game but also for the character he built in his players. Under his leadership, the Shoreham-Wading River lacrosse program flourished, not just in championships and accolades, but in sportsmanship, unity, and lifelong friendships. Many of his former players have gone on to play at the collegiate level and beyond, often crediting Gilmore as a foundational influence on their paths.
“He was the heartbeat of our team,” said one former athlete. “Coach Gilmore wasn’t just about lacrosse—he was about life. He pushed us to be better on the field, but more importantly, he challenged us to be better people.”
The Shoreham-Wading River Central School District released a statement in the wake of Gilmore’s passing:
“We are devastated by the loss of Adrian Gilmore, a cherished member of our educational and athletic communities. His passion for teaching and coaching, his kindness, and his unwavering belief in his students left an indelible mark on all of us. He inspired excellence in the classroom, on the field, and in everyday life. Our thoughts are with his family, friends, colleagues, and students during this incredibly difficult time.”
In the days following his passing, tributes poured in from students, parents, colleagues, and athletes, each one painting a picture of a man who was deeply respected and loved. Vigils have been held at the high school, where flowers, messages, and team memorabilia now form a growing memorial near the lacrosse field he once proudly commanded.
Adrian Gilmore’s influence stretched far beyond Shoreham-Wading River. His commitment to youth development and community engagement extended into local clinics, summer camps, and volunteer work that uplifted young athletes and fostered unity among neighboring towns.
Above all, Adrian was a loving father, husband, and friend. To those closest to him, he was a steady, compassionate presence—an anchor during tough times and a joy in every celebration.
A public memorial and celebration of life will be held in the coming days, with details to be announced by the district. The community is invited to come together to honor Adrian Gilmore’s remarkable life, his enduring contributions, and the countless lives he touched with his wisdom, generosity, and spirit.