The communities of Denver, Colorado, and Durham, North Carolina, are mourning the heartbreaking loss of Harry “Stokes” Ray, a beloved educator, musician, and mentor who tragically lost his life in a car accident. His sudden passing has left a deep void in the hearts of his family, colleagues, and the countless students whose lives he touched through his passion for music and education.
Harry Ray, affectionately known as Stokes, was a respected figure in the world of music education. He served as the Director of Bands at the Southern School of Energy & Sustainability in Durham and was a dedicated member of the Durham Public Schools music department. A proud graduate of Elizabeth City State University, Harry was admired not only for his musical brilliance but also for his remarkable ability to inspire and uplift those around him.
Throughout his career, Harry nurtured young musicians with patience, humor, and a genuine belief in their potential. His colleagues remember him as a calm and steady leader, someone who built lasting relationships based on trust, encouragement, and respect. Under his direction, his students didn’t just learn how to play instruments — they learned teamwork, discipline, and the joy of expressing themselves through music.
Friends and family describe Harry as devoted, compassionate, and deeply committed to the success of others. His presence could fill a room with laughter, his words could motivate even the most discouraged, and his mentorship created bonds that extended well beyond graduation.
Harry is survived by his loving wife, Morgan Ray, who shared his love for music and education. Together, they built a life rooted in service, creativity, and love for their community.
As the news of his passing spreads, tributes have poured in from across the state — from former students, fellow educators, and musicians whose paths were forever changed by his guidance. Though his life was tragically cut short, Harry Ray’s legacy will continue to live on in every note, every performance, and every student he inspired to believe in the power of music.
Rest in peace, Harry “Stokes” Ray — your melody will forever play on.