The New York City Fire Department and the local lacrosse community are in mourning following the tragic passing of Firefighter Joe Herman, who died in a motorcycle accident on the Southern State Parkway. Herman’s untimely death has left family, friends, colleagues, and teammates devastated as they come to terms with the sudden loss of a man remembered for his dedication, loyalty, and unwavering spirit.
Joe Herman was more than just a firefighter—he was a beloved son, brother, father, and friend whose presence touched countless lives. Known for his compassion, selflessness, and sense of humor, Joe lived his life in service to others. As a proud member of the FDNY, he served with distinction and courage, embodying the values of honor, sacrifice, and brotherhood that define New York’s Bravest. His colleagues remember him not only as a skilled firefighter but also as a source of strength and camaraderie within the department.
Beyond his service to the city, Joe was also deeply connected to the world of lacrosse. A former player at New York Institute of Technology (NYIT) and Nassau Community College, he was a proud member of both programs and remained closely tied to the lacrosse family long after his playing days. Teammates recall his relentless work ethic on the field, his leadership, and the friendships forged during practices and games. Lacrosse was more than a sport to Joe—it was a lifelong community, and his loss is being felt across generations of players and coaches.
Friends and family describe Joe as a person who gave his all in everything he pursued. Whether in the firehouse, on the lacrosse field, or in his personal life, he was committed, reliable, and full of heart. He valued family deeply and took great pride in his role as a father, cherishing the time spent with his loved ones and striving to set an example of hard work, integrity, and kindness.
The FDNY expressed their grief in a heartfelt message, asking the public to keep their firefighters in their prayers as they mourn: “Life doesn’t prepare you for these moments. Please keep our FDNY family in your thoughts, as we mourn the devastating loss of our brother, FF Joe Herman #13.”
The lacrosse community has also shared an outpouring of tributes. Former teammates and friends at NYIT and Nassau reflected on the bond they shared with Joe, remembering him as both a fierce competitor and a loyal teammate. His influence extended far beyond the field, where his laughter, encouragement, and leadership left a lasting mark.
Joe Herman’s passing is a profound reminder of the fragility of life and the impact one individual can have on so many. He will be remembered for his courage, his passion for service, and the love he gave so freely to his family, friends, and brothers in uniform.
As the FDNY, the lacrosse community, and his loved ones gather to honor his life, they will hold onto the memories of a man whose legacy will continue to inspire those who knew him best.
Rest in peace, Firefighter Joe Herman. Your service, your friendship, and your spirit will never be forgotten.